Sheru on Grok
An Open Letter to the Creeps in Our Comments Section
To whom it may concern,
We run a public page,
We welcome conversations, humour, and genuine engagement.
What we do not welcome – and will never tolerate – is the sexualization, objectification, or harassment of the woman behind this brand: My wife.
Every day, we recieve messages that range from midly inappropriate to outright vile.
Comments on her body, fantasies about “one night”, suggestions that her clothing or smile is an invitation.
These are not compliments.
These are are violations.
Let us be perfectly clear: She is a professional, a creator and a human being. Her appearance is not an open invitation for commentary.
This is a shared space. Your discomfort with boundaries does not entitle you to cross them.
Effective immediately, the policy is simple: Any comment that sexualizes, threatens, or disrespects her will be screenshot (username visible), posted to our story and reported.
Repeat offenders will be blocked across all platforms and. where appropriate, escalated to the relevant authorities , posted to our stories and reported.
Repeat offenders will be blocked across all platforms, and where appropriate, escalated to the relevan authorities posted on our stories and reported.
We are not asking for courtesy.
We are demanding it.
To the overwhelming majority of you who engage with kindness and respect: Thank you.
To the rest: This is your one and only warning.
Sheru On ChatGPT
Let’s just say it plainly: TikTok has some of the most creative, brilliant, vulnerable creators online, and some of the most pathetic creeps orbiting around them.
You’ll post a dance, a transition , a cute moment with your partner, a funny lip sync, or a simple GRWM and instantly:
- Someone sexualizes it
- Someone crops it
- Someone saves it
- Someone comments something filthy that nobody asked for.
No this is not flirting, not just jokes. This is straight up harrassment that is dressed as “boys will be boys” and “it’s just the internet relax”.
No, we are not relaxing.
The Entitlement is Insane
There is this weird breed of men online who think:
- Your videos exist for their fantasy.
- Your body is a public object because it is on a public platform.
- They can say anything, cross any line.
- And if you don’t like it, you are the problem for posting yourself.
They’ll be in the comments of couple videos like:
- “Drop him, I’ll treat you better”
- “Check your DMs 😉”
- or the classic: filthy emojis under a completely normal video
And then have the nerve to act confused when they get blocked.
Bro.
You’re not the main character.
You’re the reason block buttons exist.
“It’s just online” still leaves real damage
Creators don’t just “log off and forget it.”
Every creepy comment and DM:
- chips away at the feeling of safety
- makes you double-think what you wear, how you move, how you post
- makes you feel watched instead of seen
- turns fun, silly content into something that suddenly feels contaminated
Women especially know this feeling:
You’re having fun in your own lane, then suddenly you’re aware of eyes that were never invited.
It’s exhausting. It’s violating. And yeah, it’s disgusting.
“This is my woman” energy
Now, here’s where I stand:
No woman should need a man to defend her online.
But if you’re with someone who posts, and you KNOW she’s getting creeps in her comments, and you’re just silently chilling… sorry, that’s weak.
If you’re my partner, my stance is simple:
“See this girl dancing? Laughing? Being herself?
This is my woman.
Not your fantasy. Not your content. Not your late-night scrolling material.”
Not “my woman” as property.
“My woman” as in: I’m on her side. I protect her peace. I call shit out.
That means:
- deleting creepy comments
- blocking repeat offenders
- making it very clear in content & captions that disrespect won’t fly
- backing her up when she says “this made me uncomfortable,” instead of gaslighting her with “ignore it yaar”
Silence is a stance too.
And if you’re silent while she’s getting targeted, you’re choosing the side of comfort over her safety.
The “just don’t post” argument is lazy
Whenever women speak up about creeps on TikTok, someone will say:
“Then don’t post. Simple.”
Cool.
So instead of teaching men not to harass, your solution is:
Women should shrink themselves, hide, and stop existing online?
No.
We’re not going to:
- stop dancing
- stop showing joy
- stop creating
- stop existing visibly
just because some people don’t know how to act.
You don’t tell someone “don’t leave your house” because the street has thieves.
You deal with the thieves.
What we actually need from platforms & people
From platforms like TikTok:
- Better tools to auto-filter sexual comments & DMs
- Easier reporting systems for repeat harassers
- Real consequences, not just mute for 24 hours and vibes
From normal people watching:
- Don’t laugh react at creepy comments
- Don’t hype the guy who’s clearly crossing a line
- Don’t stay neutral when someone is being harassed in real time on live or in comments
- Support creators when they call it out instead of saying they’re “overreacting”
From men who are actually decent:
- Call out your boys
- Don’t send “bro it’s just a joke” DMs after
- Understand the difference between a respectful compliment and turning someone into a fetish
Final word
To every creep on TikTok:
- Her dance is not for you.
- Her outfit is not an invitation.
- Her face, her body, her voice, her AI-generated images, her filters… none of it is yours to twist, sexualise, or vandalise.
To every creator dealing with this:
You’re not “too sensitive.”
You’re not “asking for it.”
You’re not “overreacting.”
You’re reacting like a human who knows they deserve basic respect.
Keep your space clean. Block freely. Delete ruthlessly.
And if no one’s told you this yet:
Some of us aren’t watching your videos to consume you.
We’re watching in your corner, ready to swing if anyone treats you like less than a full, respected person.
You’re not “content.”
You’re a person first.
And creeps don’t get the final say in how you exist online. 🚫🧡
Sheru on Gemini
😡 Step Aside! A Message To The Digital Creeps 😡
Hear us out, all you background noise digital lurkers and pointless commentators. We are here on TikTok building our creative space. We are taking our content game to the next level. And you people? Why do you even come here? To spread toxicity? To send unwanted messages? To make boundary-pushing, cheap comments?
Listen up, because this is very simple. When we turn the camera on, we are giving a performance. We are showing our talent. We are doing hard work. This video is not an invitation to send creepy DMs to your inbox. This platform is not for your substandard fantasies. It’s a professional space and we demand that respect.
What do you think? By posting a small comment or a random, unsolicited thought, you are going to be invisible? No, you are not. We see everything. We filter everything. We all live in a community where basic human decency is given priority.
If your intent is not pure, if you cannot respect boundaries, if you do not know the difference between appreciation and harassment… then stop following us. Stop watching our content. Delete the app, get a life, and seriously, find a different hobby.
We are not here for your entertainment in that sense. We are here to create. We are here to inspire. And no amount of creepy, entitled comment can dull our vibe or our hustle.
So, we are telling you one last time. Check your behavior. Check your language. Respect the creators. Otherwise, it’s the block button and a public call-out for you. Get professional, or get off our feed.
That’s the final word.
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